Back in the Fold
I had the same pair of twin beds throughout my entire childhood. No matter where we lived--New Orleans, Austin, New Orleans again, and Jackson, Mihhihhippi--I used the same frames as either bunkbeds or twin beds. They were easily convertible, depending on mood, age, and room size. I knew the curve of the headboards intimately, the noise they made when I jumped into them (or on them), and can vividly recall the shade of pale yellow they were painted for most of my childhood.
After high school graduation, as I packed up to go to UT, my mother decided to move into a smaller place. Not a bad idea, as I was going to be far away and only home for the holidays. (And after the first year, I was hardly home at all). All she needed was one bedroom and a sofa-bed for my infrequent appearances and she would be fine. So, we didn't need the twin beds anymore. In those years my mother ran with a younger set (she still does, now that I think about it) and in that set was a woman who bartended at the coolest bar in Jackson, was newly married and pregnant, and could use a set of beds for children. So they were passed along to this young couple and honestly, I didn't think about them again.
Flash forward 15 or so years. Pod and his bandmates were slowly coming together again--after a few years adrift thanks to marriage, babies, careers, life in other words-- to form what would become The Dentones. Alain, the drummer (and coincidentally, someone who Pod has known since they were toddlers, as their moms are great friends) got their first gig at a party for a coworker. I missed the show for some reason, but after their small acoustic set, Pod struck up a conversation with some of Alain's coworkers. And one of them was from Jackson. Pod said, "you must know my mother-in-law because she knows everyone in Jackson." (This is true. I mean, literally, she knows everyone in Jackson.) And as it turned out, this coworker of Alain's did in fact know my mother, said immediately, "you must be married to Bookhart," and then mentioned that he and his wife had some twin beds that once belonged to me.
Small world. Tiny world.
So, over the past few years, we've seen this very nice couple at Dentones gigs, and a few weeks back, they happened to mention that their oldest daughter (now 18) would be going off to college in the fall, and would we be interested in having the twin beds back?
Um, hell yeah. Hay-yull yeah. We've been wanting bunk beds for Wonder Boy for years but somehow never got around to buying them. If the money was there, the inclination wasn't and if the inclination was there, the money wasn't.
I mentioned this with some excitement to my mother (because, as any one who has seen my house knows, the Bookhart family only buys new furniture if we can't inherit it) and she dropped a bombshell on me. Did I know that not only were these my twin beds but they had also been my father's as a child?
Um, no, I hadn't known that. So I was even more excited.
This Saturday, this couple borrowed a truck and brought over the beds. I thought we might repaint them, but Wonder Boy was over the moon about them, they were in lovely shape, so we decided to set them up right away. And as I was looking at the various pieces I noticed that one of the slats bore a very old shipping label from a company in Memphis. And in very faded copperplate handwriting was the address where they were sent. Which was "To: Mr. H.H. [my maiden name], Alexandria." H.H. being my paternal grandfather in Alexandria, Louisiana, where my dad was born and where he lived until about 1942 or so, when H.H. (Hubert Hudson, also known as "Pat") died at a very young age.
So there, a clear provenance for the beds. Also, a chance for me to think about my grandfather (who, obviously, I only know from photographs) buying his young son--my father--a brand-new bunkbed. And of the love he must have had for my father, and the pride he must have had when they arrived. (Because this was the late 30s/early 40s, not the most prosperous time in the Deep South.)
So now, they are back in the family, in Wonder Boy's room, and he loves them.
I cannot tell you how happy this confluence of events has made me.
After high school graduation, as I packed up to go to UT, my mother decided to move into a smaller place. Not a bad idea, as I was going to be far away and only home for the holidays. (And after the first year, I was hardly home at all). All she needed was one bedroom and a sofa-bed for my infrequent appearances and she would be fine. So, we didn't need the twin beds anymore. In those years my mother ran with a younger set (she still does, now that I think about it) and in that set was a woman who bartended at the coolest bar in Jackson, was newly married and pregnant, and could use a set of beds for children. So they were passed along to this young couple and honestly, I didn't think about them again.
Flash forward 15 or so years. Pod and his bandmates were slowly coming together again--after a few years adrift thanks to marriage, babies, careers, life in other words-- to form what would become The Dentones. Alain, the drummer (and coincidentally, someone who Pod has known since they were toddlers, as their moms are great friends) got their first gig at a party for a coworker. I missed the show for some reason, but after their small acoustic set, Pod struck up a conversation with some of Alain's coworkers. And one of them was from Jackson. Pod said, "you must know my mother-in-law because she knows everyone in Jackson." (This is true. I mean, literally, she knows everyone in Jackson.) And as it turned out, this coworker of Alain's did in fact know my mother, said immediately, "you must be married to Bookhart," and then mentioned that he and his wife had some twin beds that once belonged to me.
Small world. Tiny world.
So, over the past few years, we've seen this very nice couple at Dentones gigs, and a few weeks back, they happened to mention that their oldest daughter (now 18) would be going off to college in the fall, and would we be interested in having the twin beds back?
Um, hell yeah. Hay-yull yeah. We've been wanting bunk beds for Wonder Boy for years but somehow never got around to buying them. If the money was there, the inclination wasn't and if the inclination was there, the money wasn't.
I mentioned this with some excitement to my mother (because, as any one who has seen my house knows, the Bookhart family only buys new furniture if we can't inherit it) and she dropped a bombshell on me. Did I know that not only were these my twin beds but they had also been my father's as a child?
Um, no, I hadn't known that. So I was even more excited.
This Saturday, this couple borrowed a truck and brought over the beds. I thought we might repaint them, but Wonder Boy was over the moon about them, they were in lovely shape, so we decided to set them up right away. And as I was looking at the various pieces I noticed that one of the slats bore a very old shipping label from a company in Memphis. And in very faded copperplate handwriting was the address where they were sent. Which was "To: Mr. H.H. [my maiden name], Alexandria." H.H. being my paternal grandfather in Alexandria, Louisiana, where my dad was born and where he lived until about 1942 or so, when H.H. (Hubert Hudson, also known as "Pat") died at a very young age.
So there, a clear provenance for the beds. Also, a chance for me to think about my grandfather (who, obviously, I only know from photographs) buying his young son--my father--a brand-new bunkbed. And of the love he must have had for my father, and the pride he must have had when they arrived. (Because this was the late 30s/early 40s, not the most prosperous time in the Deep South.)
So now, they are back in the family, in Wonder Boy's room, and he loves them.
I cannot tell you how happy this confluence of events has made me.


14 Comments:
You had to know I was going to comment on this post - what a great story! I love that WB loves the beds as much as you, and your dad, did. So glad you didn't buy anything new - it was meant to be.
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La Turista, at 7:50 PM
This is an AMAZING tale! Even without the additional generation thing, it's just beyond words. Then to add the fact that the beds were your dads AND the shipping label---- fantastic!!!
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Po, at 10:09 PM
Karla here, too lazy to sign in again.
Holy CrapOli that is a good story. DAYUM. I can see WB being excited about it especially now knowing the history.
And the beds are gorgeous. They look new!
You live in a very strange and wonderful world where things like this can happen. You have a most interesting life, even if I bet you don't think so. I hope you know that.
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Anonymous, at 11:56 PM
CHERISH those beds. really, I have nothing like this in my house, and would have LOVED anything to be handed down to me.
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reina, at 6:30 AM
Beautiful story. Funny thing is, we're getting rid of our bunk beds. In the end, they'll probably wind up in the cabin in New Mexico. E. only wants to sleep on the floor now.
Oh, and watch out for the popcorn on the ceiling. Little boy guest love to scrape that off the ceiling and make the room and bed gritty. Luckily there's no asbestos in that stuff anymore.
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mistyhop, at 7:17 AM
Great story!
BTW, I'm not ignoring you about the Port A thing, it's just that we don't know (still!) whether Steven's work might put a serious crimp in our vacation style.
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SUS, at 7:32 AM
That is so dang cool. It really IS a teeny, tiny world.
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Badger, at 7:33 AM
That is just the COOLEST freakin' story.
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Sharon, at 8:13 PM
That is THE. AWESOMEST. STORY!
Thanks for sharing!!
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peevish, at 3:02 PM
What a great story! And it seems to me that it's one of those things that OF COURSE would happen in Austin.
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Sinda, at 6:52 PM
How very, very special that your father, you, and now your son, will know the curve of those headboards. What an absolutely beautiful story! Thank you.
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noni, at 7:57 PM
I needed this story today -- I really did. Fantastic.
A few years ago, when my mother was approximately 70, her lifelong friend, Doris dropped by on my mother's birthday and left a gift in my mom's mailbox. The card said, "I hope you take better care of this this time".
The gift was a book with the inscription:
February 22, 1933
Happy First Birthday to LaGene Bates
From Doris Crudginton
Doris happened to have looked at this old children's book at a garage sale 300 miles from where they grew up & recognized her mother's distinctive handwriting.
I can't tell you how much these sorts of things delight me!
Kristen
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Kristen, at 11:33 AM
I remember those beds! When I first started reading the post I could immediately picture them. What a cool story!
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Gatling Gun, at 6:29 PM
That is lovely. What a great story.
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Keetha, at 7:32 AM
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